But it all feels old.
Its a good life
That’s what I’m told.
But everything
It all just feels the same
And my high school: it felt more to me
Like a jail cell, a penitentiary.
My time spent there
It only made me see
I don’t want to do the things you do.
I’m never gonna hear the words you say
Cause I don’t ever wanna.
I don’t ever want to be.
You don’t want to be just like you
What I’m sayin’ is this is the anthem
Throw all your hands up
You. don’t want to be you
Our holiday to Berlin this spring was cancelled very close to departure time and it took many months to get the full refunds. Good job we had not booked a stay on the Greek island of Corfu. I am really looking forward to being able to return here one day. I enjoy the Greek way of life and there is so much more of this verdant isle to explore.
What else can I do to occupy my tiny mind? (yes dear I haven’t forgotten that list). Well I could buy myself another motorbike. Always been part of my life since I was a teenager, I didn’t get a car until I was in my 30’s! I sold my last bike a couple of years back but to be brutally honest I’m getting too old. The condition of the roads (potholes etc) are lethal and the amount of traffic is even more deadly. Best forget that idea.
I could always take up fishing again. When we moved I brought all my old rods and reels with us. It’s been twenty years since I put them in the shed when I lost my love for angling. A lot of the lakes and rivers I fished changed ownership and became private or very expensive. With the birth of our daughter I just gave up but now sitting besides a beautiful river on a crisp autumn morning has an appeal. Perhaps I should dust them rods down, if the mice haven’t got to them!
I could always attempt to see and photograph all 58 species of British butterflies in one year. The amount of travelling involved puts me right off this idea, best to just take your time and enjoy those that come along. We will now be able to go when we please when the weather is good without having to worry about booking holiday time in advance so that’s a bonus! I might invest in a nice shiny new 600mm super zoom lens. I have been pondering the purchase of one for some time and it would make bird photography a lot easier.
Whatever I do in the coming years one thing is for sure, I will grow old disgracefully! I have had years of experience!
If you are still with me after my thoughtful wanderings,well done, see you soon…..
Go to college, a university
Get a real job, that’s what they said to me
But I could never live the way they want
I’m gonna get by and just do my time
Out of step while they all get in line.
I’m just a minor threat so pay no mind
Do you really want to be like them
Do you really want to be another trend
Do you want to be part of that crowd.
Cause I don’t ever wanna.
I don’t ever want to be you
(Good Charlotte ‘The Anthem’ 2003)
Congrats on your retirement Brian. Welcome to the ‘new’ world of getting up when you want (no alarm clocks required) and doing anything that takes your fancy. 😊 My friend told me not to do those odd jobs too well, or even more will be added to the list! Enjoy!!
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Thanks Mike. It’s going to take a little while to get used to the new life.
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You never know, it may be a lot easier than you think… 😊
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Congratulations from me too! Being free at last and wasting energy on things you really want to do! And I love your sentence: “Whatever I do in the coming years one thing is for sure, I will grow old disgracefully! I have had years of experience!” 🙂
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Many thanks Simone, I’m looking forward to being free to do my own thing as and when I want.
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The images are lovely and the Robin is gorgeous. Ours don’t look like that!
He-Man is enjoying his retirement, but it’s only been a couple of weeks so it still feels like he’s on a vacation he says. He’s not bored yet.
Get the lens! I hope you can see your daughter soon!
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Hi Deborah. I guess He-Man hasn’t got his to-do list yet? Won’t be able to get the lens just yet as the shops are having to shut down for at least a month. It’s pretty upsetting not seeing our daughter and being in another Country is making it worse, fingers crossed next year things will settle down.
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When we knew we were going to be moving we bought a house that was only 4 years old so there’s not much of a Honey-do list. We didn’t want to worry about that stuff too much in this phase of life. However he did call out the guy to service our water softener. 😀
The store isn’t doing online business so you can order it? I am hoping and praying next year is a whole lot better and back to normal!
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Bit old fashioned in that I want to handle that lens and make sure I got the right choice before parting with the cash, plus I don’t want the hassle in return post.
Lucky He-Man, then I knew what was involved when we moved here. We got the property for such a good price all improvements are going to add value but we are in no great hurry as it’s perfectly livable.
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Sounds like you did what is right for you and you bought a great property!
I totally understand wanting to touch and use the lens before purchasing one, but needs/wants must in these strange times.
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Congratulations on your retirement! I love all the photos and agree – the robin is a very handsome fellow! I also hope you can see your daughter soon and hope you and all your family continue to take care and stay safe 🙂
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Thank you Takami for your kind comment let’s hope the future is brighter so we can see our daughter, it’s been far too long.
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Woo-Hoo! This is fantastic news!
I took early retirement, have never looked back and have been having a BLAST!!
For me, the most valuable commodity has been time to spend with those I love. All other things fall into place along the way.
What a great pike!
Looking forward to the adventures of Brian The Disgraceful Retiree!
Best regards from the swamps of Florida.
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If I can have a life half as good as yours Wally I will be well pleased. Stay safe in them swamps and remember to ‘socially distance’ from them ‘gators!
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There’s always politics to get involved with…:)
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Oh no Tina politics ain’t my thing but I will keep checking your gardening tips.
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Lol. I neglected to congratulate you–wishing you the best in this new chapter.
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I hope you will enjoy your retirement, Brian. With all your varied interests, I have no doubt that the days will fly by without boredom. There is much to see, enjoy, and photograph right in front of our doorsteps while our travels are limited, and I have found great satisfaction in exploring what lies near.
All the best,
Tanja
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So true Tanja I have yet to get out and explore the local countryside so plenty to look forward to.
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Congrats on retirement, Brian! Love your last rebel shot, hehe.
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Cheers Donna! Amazing what old shots you can unearth!
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Funny you should mention getting a telephoto lens. last Friday I found the cursor of my computer hovering over the “buy now” button for a Nikon 200-500mm at Amazon. It’s hovered over that particular button once or twice in recent months. This time a muscle twitched and those new photographic opportunities should be arriving in the next day or two. No contest: with the extra time on your hands and the increased opportunities you’ll get to use the new lens it’ll mean much better value for money. You know it makes sense. Go for it. And happy retirement!
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Thanks David. Looks like you will have fun with the new Nikon that is a quality item. My choice will be the Sigma 150-600mm but for now it will have to wait ’till we are out of this new lockdown.
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I’d thought about the Sigma, but went for the Nikon in the end – a toss up really. Justification for buying it now rather than after lock down – and a pretty slim one – was that I might get some shots of Redwings that visit the hawthorn trees in and around the field at this time of year. But still waiting for its arrival. Taking a little longer than first suggested on Amazon, but then the Redwings are taking their time to arrive as well…
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Brian, congratulations!! Enjoy it anyway you like; I’m certain you’ll figure it out. And remember, a happy wife is a happy life so definitely don’t forget her list! But… buy the lens! That’s the first thing you need to do… well done for taking the plunge. Enjoy it, my friend! 🙏📷
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Rob many thanks. The lens will have to wait ’till after lockdown now, I would rather not go through buying on-line for something like that I like to try things in store just so I’m 100% sure. It will be worth the wait and in the mean time where’s that list!
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What system are you shooting, Brian? I may have an affordable and excellent recommendation for you!
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My heart is set on the Sigma 150-600mm after trawling through every review of the three main options (Nikon, Tamron, Sigma). It’s the lightest (and cheapest!) super zoom and add in the crop sensor of my Nikon bodies will give me upto 960mm in old money, when you think back to the old days of 35mm slr’s that is just crazy!
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Brian I’m wetting myself. 🤣That’s the one I have. The 5-6.3. It’s superb!
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Excellent! Always good to hear first hand recommendations.
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It’s got a lovely sweet spot around f8-11. A tad heavy but mounted on the lens’ collar, great for wildlife! My wren shots from the summer were taken with it.
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Congrats B! will be joining you shortly and I, of course, endorse the 600mm purchase hehehe. Hoping part of that retirement free time is sharing more here. Oh, and nice choice of a fine American band – the Madden twins would be proud. Now time to get out there and enjoy a well-earned retirement (after a few checks on the honey do list).
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Day one. Wife gets home from work ” What have you done today? When are you doing that? Maybe a good idea to do this first” Yikes B what have I let myself in for? Apparently just excitement when I told her to chill out a bit.
Just fore-warning you what you might get when you take the plunge 😉
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Umm, sounds like I might have to make some ground rules before my first day of retirement ha! I already told Linda I’ll be in our woods from 8am to 9pm at least 5 of the 7 days during the warmer months (and 10-4 in the cold months). The other two days for are for my long runs and maybe one or two honey-dos. We’ll see how that flies.
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Good luck with that! Lookout Duck!! 😲🦆🤪🥴
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Pace yourself now you’re at ‘leisure’? Looking forward to seeing how the photo portfolio develops ….
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Many thanks Liz. Hopefully a few more bird photographs but there are still butterflies and dragonflies I would love to see.
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